Is that a Simple Life??

OK, everyone says "Life Is Simple"! Life is actually simple but people makes life complicated. Is life really that simple? I personally don't think that it is that simple. My life is definitely not simple. It is definitely not that complicated either. But how do you define simple?

I'm not here to talk about my crappy life. I feel certain things in your life, you have to keep it private. Share things about you, but to a certain extend. I don't want just about each and every person i know or i don't know know each and every bit of me. That would be scary.

I go online quite frequent. Chat with all sort of people, share experiences, debate with certain chatters about any topic that comes in mind. But there is this one person that i chat with really makes me angry and disappointed with people out there. This is how the conversation goes:

I was asking him how is he going to spend his Christmas...

Lovemaker (02:07 PM) :
as usual...hang out in cafe..
Lovemaker (02:08 PM) :
nothing much special
Melissa (02:11 PM) :
i see..with gf?
Lovemaker (02:11 PM) :
yeah.....u ler?
Lovemaker (02:13 PM) :
do u have many bf?
Melissa (02:13 PM) :
nope..i need only 1
Lovemaker (02:13 PM) :
yeah....
Melissa (02:13 PM) :
i'm sure you have many
Lovemaker (02:14 PM) :
gf can hv many but serious one just one will enough i think
Melissa (02:15 PM) :
well..i am talking abt serious one la
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
yeah...so do u hv close relation with ur serious bf

(what kind of guy asked questions like this? But just 'layan' him la, since i have nothing to do!)

Melissa (02:18 PM) :
i don't have one yet
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
so...
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
u look for one ?

(what do you mean 'look' for one? There is no such thing to look for a bf or gf! You think it is so easy to 'look' for one..like you go somewhere and 'look' for a guy or a girl and then..there..that is the guy/girl that i am looking for! BULLSHIT!)

Melissa (02:19 PM) :
i don't look
Melissa (02:19 PM) :
just letting it come naturally
Lovemaker (02:19 PM) :
i see
Melissa (02:19 PM) :
what abt you?
Lovemaker (02:20 PM) :
just see can meet any one lor
Melissa (02:21 PM) :
haha
Lovemaker (02:22 PM) :
yeah...can be a friend also can..can be a lover also good

(a guy can be so fickle minded! everything is so easy for them. You Girl ah..I am a guy..eh..want to be friends or lovers..you pick la..friend also can lover also can..up to you. My God! You think like buying vegetables meh..if can't get this vege then get another vege!)

Melissa (02:22 PM) :
haha..very simple ah
Lovemaker (02:23 PM) :
simple is nice...life should not so complicated
Melissa (02:23 PM) :
well..it is complicated
Melissa (02:23 PM) :
and it doesn't seem simple
Lovemaker (02:25 PM) :
it's human being make it complicated...
Lovemaker (02:25 PM) :
the things itself is very simple
Melissa (02:25 PM) :
well..if life is simple..then it must be boring
Lovemaker (02:26 PM) :
well...it;s depend how u deal with the life...simple can be exciting too
Melissa (02:26 PM) :
haha
Melissa (02:26 PM) :
true

(Initially i thought he's mind was just simple, so i was waiting to hear what he have to say about life la. Since it is so simple to him. But to what he have to say, i just flipped!)

Lovemaker (02:28 PM) :
as long as u feel the things u do its good n nice then just do it...that is simple too

(Yea right! without thinking of the consequences? That is what people do and later live on to regret it. I agree to a certain extend we have to just do it and give it a try, also have to see in what kind of situation la.)

Melissa (02:28 PM) :
:-)
Lovemaker (02:30 PM) :
remember..go where u want to go...eat what u want to eat...do wat u want to do..that is simple

(Well, he is trying to put in some 'words of wisdom' and give me a few tips in life la..since i am so blur.
Go where you want to go!
To go somewhere, it is not that simple. If he is talking about holiday,
1st, we need money, to make money, we need to work -not that simple.
2nd, If we are working- we need to apply for leave leh! that doesn't mean your Boss will approve your leave! - not so simple to me!
3rd, If you are single, then can just go la, what if you have a family-have to think about your wife/husband and kids le? - not so simple le
4th, Think about Hotel leh, unless you want to sleep at the roadside or under the bridge..

What i am trying to say is..everything you do you have to plan. You can't just leave when you feel like leaving. Same goes for a relationship!

Eat what you want to eat?

I don't know how this statement applies to life being simple

Lastly, Do what you want to do!

I mean come on! You can't do whatever you want to do! Whatever you do will affect people around you. )

Melissa (02:30 PM) :
'do what you want to do' can be anything
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
means have an affair
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
cheat on your gf
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
or your wife
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
can be doing what you want to do
Lovemaker (02:31 PM) :
well...well..
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
still have to consider after people around
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
that is not living it simple :-)
Lovemaker (02:33 PM) :
tot u loh..if u still scare of ppl talking ..scare of ppl say abt u...scare of this n scare of that..then life will not be simple anymore...life should be fun to live in....we r just temperary living in the world...

(huh??!! What the fuck! )

Melissa (02:35 PM) :
hmm..means if you are married..and if you feel like it..you will do it and lead your so called - normal life and don't care whatever your wife says or feel..so..is that what you called a simple life?
Melissa (02:36 PM) :
well..you may think you live a simple life...your wife might not think her life is simple that she have to deal with people like you.
Lovemaker (02:37 PM) :
hahahahaha...if anything want to happen...no matter how we prevent ..it should happen

(huh??? Is that a human that i am chatting with??? No feelings, no emotions, just words)

Melissa (02:37 PM) :
wow..no wonder you don't have a gf

(Me trying to be sarcastic!)

Lovemaker (02:37 PM) :
we only can take it n accept it...

(Fuck!!)

Melissa (02:37 PM) :
no..not we...
Melissa (02:37 PM) :
and you expect your wife to sit quietly and take it
Melissa (02:38 PM) :
that is not fair..and that is not what you called 'simple life'
Melissa (02:38 PM) :
that is selfish and ignorant
Lovemaker (02:38 PM) :
if my gf or wife hv an affair...ofcourse affair is hide behind...so..if she like n feel that i cant give her any happiness..than how i please also no use..

(I am talking about you and you give me instances if your wife were to have an affair?)

Melissa (02:39 PM) :
i'm not talking about your wife
Melissa (02:39 PM) :
i'm talking you
Lovemaker (02:39 PM) :
:-P
Melissa (02:39 PM) :
if you can think of issue like this?? then why get married with her if you think you won't be happy?
Lovemaker (02:40 PM) :
well..same thing to me..
Melissa (02:41 PM) :
no.it's not the same...you have the intention to cheat
Melissa (02:41 PM) :
and still think it is ok to do so
Lovemaker (02:41 PM) :
if i hv an affair...n my wife will not forgive n will divoce to me..n this is the punishment to me n i will take it...that is my fault
Melissa (02:43 PM) :
my point is..why have an affair when you already know that your wife will definitely will not forgive you and will divorce you
Melissa (02:43 PM) :
this is not call your punishment

(His punishment??? What punishment you are talking about? you had an affair, who the hell would forgive you? Of course it is your fault! Learn how to 'spark' your relationship again la! Read kennysia.com and learn a thing or two. Your life is definitely simple, by having a divorce is your easy way out! Scumbag!! )

Lovemaker (02:43 PM) :
sometime things is beyond our control...

(What the Fuck!!! You can't control your dick is it?? Go fucking around is it???)

Melissa (02:44 PM) :
it is punishing her because she will be hurt and traumatize her whole life
Melissa (02:44 PM) :
ohh...come on..what you mean things is beyond your control?
Lovemaker (02:44 PM) :
marriage is such a like gambling

(You will get another F word from me..i am controlling myself..but not my finger *showing my middle finger*)

Melissa (02:45 PM) :
you are telling me that you are weak and you could not control infidelity?
Lovemaker (02:46 PM) :
how to say...man r almost the same...maybe i m wrong...

(Girls, there are no more good guys around anymore. They are all dead. Even this guy admits it. How to trust guys anymore leh? Furthermore hearing this from a guy!)

Melissa (02:47 PM) :
wow..you are saying you are like that?
Lovemaker (02:48 PM) :
well...well.. i admit..i like it..i like the fun...
Melissa (02:49 PM) :
how old are you already?
Lovemaker (02:50 PM) :
mid 30
Melissa (02:52 PM) :
35?
Lovemaker (02:52 PM) :
going to 36
Melissa (02:53 PM) :
ok..good for you

(That expains why he is still single in his late 30's. I'm not saying all guys in their 30's that is still single have the same thinking with him..but i can see that there's a problem with this guy. That is why he is still single. At 36 and you still thinking of having fun. What has this world had turned into?)

Lovemaker (02:54 PM) :
do u have sex experience?

(Damn you..want to talk about sex somemore..pervert! Can't you see that i am pissed off and you still want to try your luck at me..Go fly kite la!)

Melissa (02:55 PM) :
i am not going through with this conversation
Lovemaker (02:55 PM) :
ok..sure

This is how i ended my conversation this this chatter. I mean, how can a person have thinking like this? If he is really a person that i talked face to face to. I would have definitely killed him with my bare hands. Would you want to be with a person like this?

All i can say is..i wish him the best of luck.. And i wish that he can lead a lonely, miserable, pathetic, meaningless SIMPLE LIFE !!! *showing middle finger*

The Spears - Are they good news or bad news?

Recently, i have read a few articles about Britney spear's baby sister Jamie Lynn Spears is PREGNANT! I mean, she is only 16 years old. Her parents are OK with it! What kind of message is she sending to the kids that idolize her? Kids watch her show 'Zoey 101' aired on Nickelodeon. I thought she would be different than her sister!

At least Britney was 24 and married before she got pregnant. Well, that doesn't mean she made the right choice either. Married a guy who already has a girlfriend that has bear him 2 children and carrying in her belly with another one. He does not even plan to marry her long time girlfriend and also mother of his 2 kids-Shar Jackson.

I mean, I don't understand why Britney would get involve with a guy that is so irresponsible. No one approved when they got together, as Britney being a rebel, she went against everyone. It's like what we would do when we were teenagers, the more our parents refrain us from doing anything the more we want to do it to show that we are more superior than them. That's Britney! Although she was in her twenties, (as you know Hollywood celebrities will never lead a normal life) her mentality is still of a teenage girl.

When she was going with Justin, she was young and famous and in love. Only after her breakup with Justin made her go cuckoo a little. OK, not a little but a lot. After that she has been focusing on her career and going on for tours, made her feel more lonely. Then she met Kevin Federline at a bar and they just hit it off..she is so over protective over Kevin saying that he's the one, he is nice and understanding and whatever you would say when you think that you are so in love.

Which guy won't fall in love with Britney? She is super rich man! He have already more than one motive to be with her.

i) He ask for anything in the world and she will get it for him
ii) He gets to travel the world with her expenses (on her tour around the world)
iii) Get her pregnant and he will always be the father of her kids
iv) A lifetime of alimony from her as she is earning more then he is (when divorce) v) Instant Fame!! who doesn't want that?

Why i think Britney made the wrong choice by choosing Kevin to be her husband?

i) He doesn't even earn enough to buy her a meal.
ii) He likes to party a lot (that doesn't sound like a good husband material)
iii) She has to take car of him instead of the other way round
iv) Irresponsible as a boyfriend and as a father (referring to Shar Jackson)
v) He making used of her popularity to get record deals and movie roles
vi) Leave his girlfriend who is still pregnant with his 3rd child for Britney (come on Brit, with his actions i'm sure a blind person can see what kind of person he is!)
vii) Britney have to buy her own proposal ring to ask him to propose to her?

I guess it is enough reason to think that Kevin is not good news to Britney, she have to merely spend her fortune to maintain his sudden extravagant lifestyle. No wonder Britney goes nuts after her divorce with Kevin!!!

I'm surprise that Jamie-Lynn is following the footsteps of her sister that will lead to disaster. I'm sure she knows best what really happen to her sister. Yon know- learn from her mistake, not to follow her footsteps, but i guess i was wrong. I'm also surprise that the media are quite lenient on her. Not as bad as it hit Britney. The media seem quite supportive of her preggers public announcement.

Recent news, i've heard Jamie-Lynn had already broken off with her boyfriend CaseyAldridge. Sigh!! It is as good as it gets. then back again and broke up again....same old thing la you hear from Hollywood. Imagine us girls being pregnant and going all through it alone. It must be devastating.

We can't compare our lives with them because they live under the microscope all their life with paparazzi on the look out of everything they do and further exaggerate the issue when they make a mistake. If we make a mistake, we just apologize to our parents and ask for forgiveness and straight on with our lives. For them, it's a stress all the time, people misquote you, making a big issue for everything you do or say, force them to make a public apology if they want to continue to be a role model or celebrity or surviving in the entertainment world. We always wish that we could be rich and famous and be known. But i don't think this is the life i want to lead.


I love my normal fame-less simple life :)

Hard Rock Rocks!

I should have made this entry like months ago, but it is still not too late to do so! So, Here it is! Me and Samantha had always talked about going somewhere to have a good time, where we can eat and talk and drink and listen to good music. She always bails out because of work and time constraints. When i am free she is not and when she is free i am not! You get what i mean right?

So, we have made a date a month earlier and settled with a date so that no one will back out later. I invited my cousin Nicole and Samantha invited Yoke Ling her high school pal. Samantha was working that saturday, we went over to fetch her and head straight to Hard Rock.

We didn't make any reservation, so we went there early so that we don't need to pay any entry charges (a little info that Canna had shared). We still need to have our MAKAN ma, still have to go early :P We parked at Concorde Hotel and walked over to Hard Rock. Sam and YokeLing went in first..can't hold in their wee wee any longer ..haha!! Following behind them, we were greeted by a friendly waitress, asked for a table for 4. She asked did we make any reservation, i answered no. She looked at us with a frown on her face as she said 'we are fully booked'!! I am like...are you sure? Because i saw lots of empty tables...she looked at me and say kidding.

What a slap in the face! I so wanted to shout at her yelling..'I drive all the way from Klang, which is about an hour drive. We left early so we don't get stuck in the jam so that we can get a seat without the hassle of booking and you have the nerve to play a prank on us? This is not funny!!!' Ok ok, i didn't freak out like that. i knew we could get a place anytime. :P

Top: Samantha and YokeLing
Bottom: Me and my cousin Nicole

We were suppose to go there for their Ramadhan buffet, but my other colleagues that went there told me that it's not worth it and the food is not all that great. The ala-carte menu would be a better bargain. When Sam and YokeLing arrive at our table, Sam told me that the waitress told them that we have left because there are no table available for walk-in customers. What's with Hard Rock Cafe's waiters and waitresses with their pranks ah, haha!!

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This what we have ordered off the menu, not a bad choice, since none of them want to make a decision on what to eat. I have to make an order for all of us, Sam and YokeLing dare not eat beefs and i love beef. So i want to look for something that we can have a little bit of beef and chicken. Guess what..they have one and it is called the 'Hickory Smoked Bar-B-Que Combo'. It's either the Duo Combo or the Trio Combo.

JUMBO COMBO

DUO COMBO which consist of the 'Hickory Smoked Bar-B-Que Ribs +
Hickory Smoked Bar-B-Que Chicken

Chicken Caeser Salad

The food just looks so good that i have to take pictures although the girls are grumbling because they are too hungry waiting for me to finish clicking...hehe!!

The Drinks are quite affordable too. It's not like Chillis that the drinks are bottomless, you only get to refill once at Hard Rock..anyway, how much can you drink right??!! No, you'll be surprise at how much 4 girls can drink. Initially we order Ice Lemon Tea to go with the food, then our waiter came buy and told us that they have a promotion going on for happy hour. We can order any House Wine or certain selected cocktails before 9.00pm to get another free refill! I'm like really!!??!??! So, we timed ourselves, by 8.45 sharp we order a drink so it will last us till the Live Band commence and we can get another refill!! Good plan right?

Look at the drinks closely, It does looks like Ice Lemon Tea

Look at it again...It's actually our cocktail Long Island

8 Drinks on our table, 2 drinks for each of us..damn 'tham sim' man!!!!

Eh, buy one and get one free...who don't want leh?

Drink la..no need to Paiseh one la..

Nice smile!

Halfway through the night. i notice something with Sam. Like she has some theme going on with her dressing. Then finally i notice, her love for Mickey Mouse of course or perhaps Walt Disney! Her cap, Walt Disney. Her blouse, Mickey Mouse! Her panties could be covered with Mickey's head!!

Taa Daa!!! Ooopppsss!!

Ok, enough about Sam and her undergarments.

After lots of drinks and toilet visits later..time really flies and the Band has arrived. They start at 11.00pm sharp, by that time we have finish drinking both our Ice Lemon Teas and Long Islands. Damn, so we change location and order a jug of beer...Haha...It really makes me go to the toilet more. We really enjoy all the songs played by the Band, i don't really remember the Band's name, but i know there's a short and petite girl and a bald guy-they are from Indonesia by the way. Applaud for the band!!! I've been to a few places where they have live bands, but nothing could compare with this. I'll go there again for the Band!! Up for it Canna?

Want to play a game? Can you spot a hidden Mickey?
Ohh, i see it! I bet you do too!!

Cheers!!

More Mickey!

I know..enough with the Mickeys right. Poser!

I said enough! Drink, just don't get drunk.

A few drinks later....

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Started Cam-whoring!

We started hugging each other!

More hugging going on..and flirting too!! Of course la..everone else start posing!

You know, when you had so much fun you started saying things like 'Hey, we should do this more often. Why not we make it a monthly event where we go around different cafes and restaurants and try all the best food. Right! Let's set the next location and we'll meet again next month!' But it never happened! Sigh! We had this conversation too right Canna? After that there would be someone that don't have the time la, no money la, no car la, lazy la. Think la of whatever reasons. This time the 'Beh Tahan Girls' (minus Doris) can't be 'Beh Tahan Girls' because we don't have our camera queen with us! Minus Doris minus the fun lo! Miss you Doris!

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Manage to find time to snap a few pics of the KL Tower. The night view looks better. We were at the Concorde roof top parking, we went crazy a while at the roof top before everyone decide to jump in the car and head back. Everyone was sober, no one was drunk. All i can say..not enough alcohol la, i was expecting laughter right from KL till Klang like we were in Bali - of course minus the boost of alcohol la! Now i miss Bali too!! It was a great night out with the girls, we each spent RM90 for the alcohols and scrumptious food. Not bad at all. I would like to do this again, just have to wait and see la.

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Can we make it at a Restaurant that plays Jazz music girls??!! :P

Birthday Bash! And it's not mine!

This is the annual routine event that i have to attend in replace of my Live and Loud Concert! Not only did i organize this event, i have to be the cameraman too, because our cameraman blew us off. I don't have a professional SLR camera like he does. So the picture i took turns out badly. Yay!!!! Don't blame me..i am already pissed off that i miss the once in a lifetime event. Don't they blame me that the picture turns out teribbly.

Me and some of the committee were there earlier to prepare the karaoke and everything else before the rest arrive. Shhhh!! Actually we wet there early so that we can sing a few rounds. You know lah..shy ma.. So i end up dominating the stage..singing quite a number of songs..warm up before the karaoke competition.

Meanwhile, the karaoke manager is getting the food prepared. So, before they get to eat..i took a few snaps before the wild animals swarm in and the food go *Poof* in a few seconds. I refrain anyone to go near the buffet line. Want to take pictures first ma.




Roasted Barbecue Lamb Rack


Seafood Bonne Femme


Black Mushroom Chicken


Spaghetti Neapolitan


Nasi Goreng Kampung


Ais Kacang Man

As usual, after the makan-makan session, when everyone is full already..then start la the rewards and recognition prize giving session. At the same time slot in with some karaoke singing competition. Hey, i won third place for the duets. Hehe! not bad..i sang 'At the Beginning' by Donna Lewis and Richard Marx.

Take...take some more!!!

Makan!!

Makan la..makan

Here are our judges for the singing competition with their score cards. They are not pro la, it's 2 of my bosses and they are doing it because they don't want to sing and they are very sure we are going to force them into it anyway..haha!

The last event was the Birthday Bash for the 2nd half birthday boys and girls. Which went totally kelam-kabut! But i manage to snap a few pics in the midst of 'Kelam-kabut'. Prize giving for the karaoke winners and also something for the Comittee Members that make this all happen la, which is thanking me la. Boss bought us a soft toy from Ikea..nice!

Conclusion. I wish i was at the concert. End of story!

The Stork Has Arrived!

Congratulations to Tetty, my colleague and also my cubicle-mate. She has just delivered to a healthy baby girl on November 26th 2007 which she named Iman Aksho. She is now on maternity leave for 2 months and she will be back on the 25th of January. A little lonely at work now, no one beside me that i can talk to when i'm bored.

So, can't wait for her to come back to work!!

Congrats again Tet!! Wishing you and newborn Baby Iman a quick recovery and good health!!