Is that a Simple Life??

OK, everyone says "Life Is Simple"! Life is actually simple but people makes life complicated. Is life really that simple? I personally don't think that it is that simple. My life is definitely not simple. It is definitely not that complicated either. But how do you define simple?

I'm not here to talk about my crappy life. I feel certain things in your life, you have to keep it private. Share things about you, but to a certain extend. I don't want just about each and every person i know or i don't know know each and every bit of me. That would be scary.

I go online quite frequent. Chat with all sort of people, share experiences, debate with certain chatters about any topic that comes in mind. But there is this one person that i chat with really makes me angry and disappointed with people out there. This is how the conversation goes:

I was asking him how is he going to spend his Christmas...

Lovemaker (02:07 PM) :
as usual...hang out in cafe..
Lovemaker (02:08 PM) :
nothing much special
Melissa (02:11 PM) :
i see..with gf?
Lovemaker (02:11 PM) :
yeah.....u ler?
Lovemaker (02:13 PM) :
do u have many bf?
Melissa (02:13 PM) :
nope..i need only 1
Lovemaker (02:13 PM) :
yeah....
Melissa (02:13 PM) :
i'm sure you have many
Lovemaker (02:14 PM) :
gf can hv many but serious one just one will enough i think
Melissa (02:15 PM) :
well..i am talking abt serious one la
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
yeah...so do u hv close relation with ur serious bf

(what kind of guy asked questions like this? But just 'layan' him la, since i have nothing to do!)

Melissa (02:18 PM) :
i don't have one yet
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
so...
Lovemaker (02:18 PM) :
u look for one ?

(what do you mean 'look' for one? There is no such thing to look for a bf or gf! You think it is so easy to 'look' for one..like you go somewhere and 'look' for a guy or a girl and then..there..that is the guy/girl that i am looking for! BULLSHIT!)

Melissa (02:19 PM) :
i don't look
Melissa (02:19 PM) :
just letting it come naturally
Lovemaker (02:19 PM) :
i see
Melissa (02:19 PM) :
what abt you?
Lovemaker (02:20 PM) :
just see can meet any one lor
Melissa (02:21 PM) :
haha
Lovemaker (02:22 PM) :
yeah...can be a friend also can..can be a lover also good

(a guy can be so fickle minded! everything is so easy for them. You Girl ah..I am a guy..eh..want to be friends or lovers..you pick la..friend also can lover also can..up to you. My God! You think like buying vegetables meh..if can't get this vege then get another vege!)

Melissa (02:22 PM) :
haha..very simple ah
Lovemaker (02:23 PM) :
simple is nice...life should not so complicated
Melissa (02:23 PM) :
well..it is complicated
Melissa (02:23 PM) :
and it doesn't seem simple
Lovemaker (02:25 PM) :
it's human being make it complicated...
Lovemaker (02:25 PM) :
the things itself is very simple
Melissa (02:25 PM) :
well..if life is simple..then it must be boring
Lovemaker (02:26 PM) :
well...it;s depend how u deal with the life...simple can be exciting too
Melissa (02:26 PM) :
haha
Melissa (02:26 PM) :
true

(Initially i thought he's mind was just simple, so i was waiting to hear what he have to say about life la. Since it is so simple to him. But to what he have to say, i just flipped!)

Lovemaker (02:28 PM) :
as long as u feel the things u do its good n nice then just do it...that is simple too

(Yea right! without thinking of the consequences? That is what people do and later live on to regret it. I agree to a certain extend we have to just do it and give it a try, also have to see in what kind of situation la.)

Melissa (02:28 PM) :
:-)
Lovemaker (02:30 PM) :
remember..go where u want to go...eat what u want to eat...do wat u want to do..that is simple

(Well, he is trying to put in some 'words of wisdom' and give me a few tips in life la..since i am so blur.
Go where you want to go!
To go somewhere, it is not that simple. If he is talking about holiday,
1st, we need money, to make money, we need to work -not that simple.
2nd, If we are working- we need to apply for leave leh! that doesn't mean your Boss will approve your leave! - not so simple to me!
3rd, If you are single, then can just go la, what if you have a family-have to think about your wife/husband and kids le? - not so simple le
4th, Think about Hotel leh, unless you want to sleep at the roadside or under the bridge..

What i am trying to say is..everything you do you have to plan. You can't just leave when you feel like leaving. Same goes for a relationship!

Eat what you want to eat?

I don't know how this statement applies to life being simple

Lastly, Do what you want to do!

I mean come on! You can't do whatever you want to do! Whatever you do will affect people around you. )

Melissa (02:30 PM) :
'do what you want to do' can be anything
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
means have an affair
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
cheat on your gf
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
or your wife
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
can be doing what you want to do
Lovemaker (02:31 PM) :
well...well..
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
still have to consider after people around
Melissa (02:31 PM) :
that is not living it simple :-)
Lovemaker (02:33 PM) :
tot u loh..if u still scare of ppl talking ..scare of ppl say abt u...scare of this n scare of that..then life will not be simple anymore...life should be fun to live in....we r just temperary living in the world...

(huh??!! What the fuck! )

Melissa (02:35 PM) :
hmm..means if you are married..and if you feel like it..you will do it and lead your so called - normal life and don't care whatever your wife says or feel..so..is that what you called a simple life?
Melissa (02:36 PM) :
well..you may think you live a simple life...your wife might not think her life is simple that she have to deal with people like you.
Lovemaker (02:37 PM) :
hahahahaha...if anything want to happen...no matter how we prevent ..it should happen

(huh??? Is that a human that i am chatting with??? No feelings, no emotions, just words)

Melissa (02:37 PM) :
wow..no wonder you don't have a gf

(Me trying to be sarcastic!)

Lovemaker (02:37 PM) :
we only can take it n accept it...

(Fuck!!)

Melissa (02:37 PM) :
no..not we...
Melissa (02:37 PM) :
and you expect your wife to sit quietly and take it
Melissa (02:38 PM) :
that is not fair..and that is not what you called 'simple life'
Melissa (02:38 PM) :
that is selfish and ignorant
Lovemaker (02:38 PM) :
if my gf or wife hv an affair...ofcourse affair is hide behind...so..if she like n feel that i cant give her any happiness..than how i please also no use..

(I am talking about you and you give me instances if your wife were to have an affair?)

Melissa (02:39 PM) :
i'm not talking about your wife
Melissa (02:39 PM) :
i'm talking you
Lovemaker (02:39 PM) :
:-P
Melissa (02:39 PM) :
if you can think of issue like this?? then why get married with her if you think you won't be happy?
Lovemaker (02:40 PM) :
well..same thing to me..
Melissa (02:41 PM) :
no.it's not the same...you have the intention to cheat
Melissa (02:41 PM) :
and still think it is ok to do so
Lovemaker (02:41 PM) :
if i hv an affair...n my wife will not forgive n will divoce to me..n this is the punishment to me n i will take it...that is my fault
Melissa (02:43 PM) :
my point is..why have an affair when you already know that your wife will definitely will not forgive you and will divorce you
Melissa (02:43 PM) :
this is not call your punishment

(His punishment??? What punishment you are talking about? you had an affair, who the hell would forgive you? Of course it is your fault! Learn how to 'spark' your relationship again la! Read kennysia.com and learn a thing or two. Your life is definitely simple, by having a divorce is your easy way out! Scumbag!! )

Lovemaker (02:43 PM) :
sometime things is beyond our control...

(What the Fuck!!! You can't control your dick is it?? Go fucking around is it???)

Melissa (02:44 PM) :
it is punishing her because she will be hurt and traumatize her whole life
Melissa (02:44 PM) :
ohh...come on..what you mean things is beyond your control?
Lovemaker (02:44 PM) :
marriage is such a like gambling

(You will get another F word from me..i am controlling myself..but not my finger *showing my middle finger*)

Melissa (02:45 PM) :
you are telling me that you are weak and you could not control infidelity?
Lovemaker (02:46 PM) :
how to say...man r almost the same...maybe i m wrong...

(Girls, there are no more good guys around anymore. They are all dead. Even this guy admits it. How to trust guys anymore leh? Furthermore hearing this from a guy!)

Melissa (02:47 PM) :
wow..you are saying you are like that?
Lovemaker (02:48 PM) :
well...well.. i admit..i like it..i like the fun...
Melissa (02:49 PM) :
how old are you already?
Lovemaker (02:50 PM) :
mid 30
Melissa (02:52 PM) :
35?
Lovemaker (02:52 PM) :
going to 36
Melissa (02:53 PM) :
ok..good for you

(That expains why he is still single in his late 30's. I'm not saying all guys in their 30's that is still single have the same thinking with him..but i can see that there's a problem with this guy. That is why he is still single. At 36 and you still thinking of having fun. What has this world had turned into?)

Lovemaker (02:54 PM) :
do u have sex experience?

(Damn you..want to talk about sex somemore..pervert! Can't you see that i am pissed off and you still want to try your luck at me..Go fly kite la!)

Melissa (02:55 PM) :
i am not going through with this conversation
Lovemaker (02:55 PM) :
ok..sure

This is how i ended my conversation this this chatter. I mean, how can a person have thinking like this? If he is really a person that i talked face to face to. I would have definitely killed him with my bare hands. Would you want to be with a person like this?

All i can say is..i wish him the best of luck.. And i wish that he can lead a lonely, miserable, pathetic, meaningless SIMPLE LIFE !!! *showing middle finger*